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The Car Key Conversation - Caring for Elderly Parents

My mother spared us the "car key conversation," a dreaded milestone of eldercare, by eagerly giving up driving in her early 70s after one accident related to arthritis and a winter of unrelenting snow.

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My sister and I had the car key conversation with both our step-father and his sons. It was almost worse with his sons than with him. In the end, he gave up his keys and we got the car dealer to cancel his lease, but that took a lawyer's help.

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Reply#1 - Sat Jul 5, 2008 9:51 PM EDT
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We will all have to face the issue of cancelling our cars in the not too distant future. I hope that I can do it with good grace. I have cut down my driving addiction to half of last year's, this year. Next year I will do the same....i.e. half the usage of this year. What will I replace it with?

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Reply#2 - Sat Jul 5, 2008 11:05 PM EDT
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